Developing self-leadership, personal power, and the ability to take aligned action is one of the most POWERFUL skills you will ever learn.
And, the ways you are shrinking in your leadership might be sneaky, like...
Seeking just a little bit of external validation,
People pleasing just a tad,
Not fully expressing your views in your IG content,
Not sharing the fullness of your brilliance at work,
Needing to be “perfect” on a date…
Spiritually, we are all one, and each individual is the universe expressing it's self, so when you contract, even subtly, like the ways listed above, you are robbing the collective of your unique magic, and you are robbing yourself of LIVING…
For much of my life, had you been observing me from the outside you would’ve believed that I was a leader in my life.
And, in many ways I was. In fact, I have exhibited leadership in HUGE ways…
At 19, I created an electronic music production company and coordinated 4,000 person raves for several years
At 23, in the first restaurant I ever worked in, I became the expeditor for a 3 star Michelin chef
At 25, I began writing novels
At 26, I moved to LA to attend Bikram yoga teacher training and pursue my dream of being a writer
At 27, I moved to Chicago where I wrote novels, taught yoga, and worked in restaurants
At 31, I moved to New York City to continue the pursuit of this dream
At 35, I allowed a very clear download to come through and change the trajectory of my life forever. After 10 years of writing fiction and beginning to get some headway, towards being published this came through…
“I don’t want to write fiction anymore. I just want to help people heal.”
The next day, I dedicated myself to the service of guiding you to freedom.
At 38, I entered grad school for counseling and depth psychology. I was living in NYC and the grad school was in Santa Barbara, California. The school was set up that you attended live classes once per month. So, for 2.5 years I flew there once a month because I KNEW this was the school I needed to go to. I had no idea how I was going to pay for it.
I used to joke that “fairies are going to pay for it.”
I went over 100K in debt with full faith that it would all be okay.
It has been more than okay. It has been magical. (I have paid off ALL of this debt.)
At 41, when the world shut down, and I lost all my jobs in two days, I took my yoga classes and healing workshops online on the third day.
A few months later, I began my online business, which has grown into a 7-figure healing business in 3.5 years.
This is only the beginning.
And, let me tell you, my success is directly related to feeling safe to SELL.
Which is why we are moving through one of my most popular courses The Art of Sacred Selling...
In every facet of our lives (love, dating, sex, career, business, etc...) we must feel safe to SHOW up and own being a BIG F'ing deal and to SHINE as the bright and beautiful being we are.
You are a truly unique human.
You have to allow yourself to be without seeking validation, shrinking, and letting your ego take things personally and get trapped in power struggles.
Rather to EMBODY the infinite and vast power of YOU.
Embodied POWER is a different vibration than a power struggle.
When you know how to embody this, and communicate it, your life expands in the most magical of ways...
The Portal April and The Art of Sacred Selling will guide you there...
Read more about The Art of Sacred Selling HERE
As you read through this list, you can sense my leadership, my ability to trust my intuition and to take action…
It is because of those abilities that I have created the expansive life I live today.
AND, let me tell you the ways I had to develop nervous system safety, process my sneaky relational trauma and attachment wounds, and feel safe to hold my personal power and BE SEEN…
Let go of my need for external validation (I had to SEE and trust myself)
Stop seeking permission to share my wisdom
(No one was going to give that to me)
Have the courage to BE in the unknown without trying to control or “need to know” (My protective parts wanted to know I was safe. I had to create the internal safety to TRUST)
When I got triggered, get curious rather than reactive (I so badly wanted to project and blame. I had to get curious and take responsibility for where I was holding on or taking things personally)
Not shrinking or getting small for acceptance and belonging (I had to trust that my people would find me)
Feeling safe to release addictive behaviors, ways of being, people, beliefs, and ideas that do not support my evolution (Leadership is a process of shedding, always)
Trust myself, my intuition, and my divine guidance (Becoming a leader is the greatest spiritual practice and transformation you will ever know)
We live in a traumatized and addicted world run by activated inner children. We do not have great models for leadership.
Not embodied, divine, wise, mature leadership.
We are NOT taught HOW to become the leaders in our lives…
To:
Trust ourselves and our intuition
Believe in ourselves
Extract the GOLD from our triggers rather than project onto others
Take the seemingly “irrational” action, which is actually the MOST aligned choice and to hold our personal power along the way
Have personal power
Most people do not even know what personal power is. Most people leak their power, give their power away, and seek power from others through needing validation
In The Portal and in all of Yarrow Kae Academy you learn to reclaim your personal power and to embody it
In The April Portal you will learn how to:
Stand in your magnetic POWER (no more proving, explaining, or apologizing)
Become a leader in a way that stretches rather than overwhelms your nervous system, no more over-responsibility or seeking saving
Feel safe to HOLD your certainty and speak your wisdom
Release the unconscious patterns that sabotage your leadership and expansion because they desperately want to keep you safe
Rewire your Nervous System to attune to the energetic frequency of leadership and certainty
Develop the personal power to BE certain no matter what
Learn the art of aligned action
Create a relaxed way of BEING in your leadership
Become the next version of you and feel safe to release your old ways of relating along the way
Create presence and intention in your daily life (this is KEY for BEING a leader in your life)
Extract the GOLD from your triggers so they no longer overpower you. You have the power to BE with them, process them, and release them (Imagine no longer even having the same triggers!!)
Become the next level version of you who holds your certainty stays connected to your personal power, and leads with grace and ease along the way
Feeling able to BE a leader, have the personal power to hold certainty around it, and to feel safe to evolve into the next level version of you is some of the MOST important work you will ever do.
Included in The April Portal:
One of my most popular programs The Art of Sacred Selling ($1111 value)
2-hour LIVE hot seat mentorship call with Yarrow
1-hour workshop around the energetics of embodied leadership
1-hour workshop on intuition vs. ego or trauma
Highest self activation around leadership and aligned action
M-F Telegram Broadcast channel from Yarrow with potent and powerful daily riffs to keep you connected to the material while feeling attuned to a nervous system who helps you feel safe to EXPAND
Questions for Yarrow Telegram Channel for individualized support
Daily meditation and chant imbued with the energetics of the theme for the month so you implant the energetics into your cells creating a juicy and potent new way of BEING
Community of powerful, intelligent, and expansive humans who are dedicated to healing, expanding, spiritually transforming and mastering energetics. This is KEY to feeling safe to step into the most powerful version of YOU. Being seen by people who are doing the same.
The energetics of communication mastermind
The most powerful skill you’ll ever learn
Imagine…
Receiving a text from the person you are newly dating and knowing exactly how to respond so that you create more joy, flirtation, and connection…
Knowing exactly how to respond to an email from your boss giving you constructive feedback and NOT feeling triggered, defensive, or as though you need to prove yourself
Understanding how to respond to your parents so that they better understand you without you feeling the need to prove or defend yourself
Staying in your power with a client who is triggered by you while guiding them back to their own power and deeper connection with you
Navigating a difficult conversation with your partner in a way that allows you both to feel held and understood
Feeling safe to release control, lean back, and trust
Express how you feel, the truth, without sugar coating it, and trusting that it is healing for everyone involved
Negotiating a salary with ease
Owning your rates with confidence and certainty
We are not taught how to communicate.
We are not taught how to connect to the energetic vibration of all people involved and to craft the communication (energetically and physically) in a way that is going to create connection.
We are not taught HOW to create the deepest connection, ease, and joy in our communication, even in the hard moments, even in the rawest and ugliest of truths.
Welcome to the energetics of communication…
My clients call me Chat GPT Yarrow…
I am a master of communication, on all levels.
Most importantly, I am a master of the energetics of communication.
I can teach you HOW to use energetics, intuition, and truth to unlock the most nourishing connection, expansion, joy, flirtation, and abundance…
All through HOW you communicate.
This truly is the most powerful and potent skill you will ever learn…
Through learning to master the energetics of communication my clients have:
Created the most intimate and connected romantic partnerships they’ve ever known
Learned to lead as parents with kindness, heart, and boundaries
Released control, leaned back and not only created deeper connection, but also watched the people in their life begin to care for themselves in new ways
Learned to lead employees in a way that allows for growth as an individual and as a company
Negotiated 6 figure salaries
Been admired as leaders in their industry
Enhanced the intimacy in their relationships
Increased the passion and juiciness of their sex lives
Sold out launches
Created six figure businesses
The greatest gift, learned to trust themselves and communicate from their heart while honoring themselves, meeting others where they are, and staying in their power in every moment.
Learned the essential skill of GENTLE LEADERSHIP
Gentle Leadership is the art of energetically guiding to deeper connection, joy, and understanding.
When you are connected to you and feel safe to STOP personalizing everything, reacting to your triggers, and making assumptions rather than connecting to ENERGY and being the gentle leader in your relationships you literally create the most magical outcomes…
Everything is energy, and when you learn how to communicate through energetics rather than reactivity, assumption, or what is “said” you become a master of connection, expansion, and creation.
Words lie. Energy doesn’t.
In fact, you say things all the time that you do not even believe are true.
You simply say them because you “should” or it sounds “right.”
And you have NOT been taught to get curious with yourself about what you actually believe and if your words match those beliefs, so you keep saying things that are untrue, which means you keep lying to yourself and others.
When you become aware of the energy behind your words you become aware of the energy behind the words of others as well and you begin to master the energetics of communication.
The same is true of communication between people
This program is not “conscious communication.” Conscious communication often bypasses the raw and real depth of emotion and creates unconscious resentment and shame.
The energetics of communication is honest communication based on energy.
The kind of communication that creates deeper connection, greater empathy, and allows you to receive your desires in ALL areas of life.
In this mastermind you will:
Process the triggers that inhibit you from communicating from your POWER
Uncover the core wound that clouds your communication so you are able to bring consciousness to it and stop allowing it to disrupt your communication and create disharmony in your life