Embody the subtle art of detachment while creating the deepest connection and intimacy you have ever known.
Relationships are sacred.
ALL relationships...
with your parents, siblings, friends, children, your business, your clients, co-workers, boss, the person who sells you your coffee, the woman walking past you on the street, your cat, your dog, your flowers, your beliefs, your fear, your body, literally everything, and, especially...
your relationship with YOU...
You may have done relationship courses before, but not like this...
We will shift your energetic vibration at a nervous system level, so you rewire your DNA to relate in an entirely new way.
I aim to help you see what you cannot see and to shift your energetic vibration in such profound ways that the entire world responds to you differently.
My clients will be the first to tell you,
"When I started working with Yarrow I was labelling everyone a narcissist, cutting off people, isolating myself, trying too hard where I wasn’t accepted. I was exhausted, unhappy and angry. I was essentially choosing (subconsciously) to stay victimized.
With her support I started feeling safe to step up and really look at how I was contributing to situations and what was coming up for me to react in these patterns. Yarrow held me lovingly accountable as I shifted my energy to standing in my power with love and compassion which created safety for myself and those around me to shift how they relate as well.
A ripple effect of healing and safety which has transformed my relationship to my partner, child, family and friends. And learned to safely let go of some relationships that no longer felt aligned."
This allows for you to lead in your relationships and in life WITHOUT it feeling like a burden, to create deep connection and intimacy, to process your triggers without projecting, blaming, or taking things personally rather feeling able to communicate from your heart and through the resonance of truth.
In December, we will move through my program Relationships Re-Imagined, a 5 MODULE program with extensive pre-work designed to guide you to embody the subtle art of detachment while creating the deepest connection and intimacy you have ever known.
In joining the December Portal you have TWO beautiful options…
The December Portal where you will have access to this:
Relationships Re-Imagined program
(MODULES will be a combo of LIVE and recorded)
M-F Telegram channel with DAILY broadcasts from Yarrow
2 Hour LIVE call with hot seat mentorship
Or...
Relationships Re-Imagined Mastermind:
All of the above PLUS
5-2 hour LIVE calls with my co-coach, Kelly, and me with individual and group processing
THIS is where the true MAGIC happens.
3 calls in December, 2 in January, so you get to practice over the holidays.
I am a genius at sussing out sneaky energy and ways of relating and helping you show up as the leader in your life and relationships without feeling like it is a burden to do so.
We are all extremely sneaky and cannot see the unconscious ways that we relate to ourselves and others.
In these calls, we will tease apart the sneaky ways that YOUR energetic communication or lack of communication, perceptions, and ways of relating to the world are creating disconnection within yourself and in your relationships.
We will help you feel safe to shift these ways, so you may create the deepest intimacy and connection you have ever known.
My clients have radically transformed their relationship with themselves and everyone in their lives through working with me in this way.
Slack channel for daily processing and attunement 4 days a week.
The December Portal and
Relationships Re-Imagined
Embody the subtle art of detachment while creating the deepest connection and intimacy you have ever known...
In the past few years, in my work with clients, one of the areas that I have most impacted their lives is through deepening intimacy in their relationships, both with self and others.
My work with clients has saved marriages, relationships, and allowed for dating situationships to become partnerships.
In our work together, I have helped clients:
Create the deepest intimacy they have known based on connection rather than attachment
Leading with and holding space for their employees (My client said to me the other day, "I never could have held space for my employees the way I did today before doing this work with you)
Feeling safe to express themselves and hold their power with their boss, not from a defended way, rather calm, embodied, and powerful (there is a HUGE difference)
Release Codependency with partners and family (especially parents)
Commit to partnership (through bringing my client's partners to session they have released the blocks to committing and have created true partnership)
Further intimacy and understanding between my clients and their parents (bringing parents to session has dramatically increased my clients feeling heard and understood)
Shift out of victimhood and hopelessness, become gentle leaders in their energy, and have created entirely new dynamics in their relationships
Process their triggers so they are able to be their own anchor while dating and not seek saving, but rather trust in the process
And, most importantly, I have held my clients through the MOST challenging moments in relationships, the ones that split you open, rock you to your core, and birth you out the other side an entirely new person.
"If I were to choose a zone of genius of Yarrow's among her MANY zones of geniuses, it’d be RELATIONSHIPS."
Recently, a previous client asked me to facilitate couples sessions for himself and his fiancé before their wedding day…
After they got married, I said to him, “Thank you for trusting me with your love. It means the world.”
And he replied, “Thank YOU. I wouldn’t have trusted anyone else. It had to be you.”
I have a gift with helping people to connect, to see outside of themselves, and to see deeper inside themselves.
This creates authentic connection and deep understanding within self and between others.
You have a relationship with everything in your life, and when you learn to relate through the truth of your energy and to process your trauma and triggers you create such beautiful intimacy and real connection based on authenticity.
I desire everyone to feel safe to relate in this way...
- Paton Ashbrook -
“My work with Yarrow illuminated reactionary patterns of mine, the root causes of many relationship dynamics I’d experienced, and helped me connect deeply to my body’s wisdom.
As I’ve been integrating this work into my life, I speak up more, I take more responsibility for my part in dynamics that arise while having more capacity to remain present, I’m clearer about my boundaries… And I have a really gorgeous community around me that I was able to connect to so deeply because I’ve connected more fully to myself.
I’m discovering a balance between honoring my own needs while showing up the way I want to for the people I love and I remain so grateful for Yarrow’s insights and ability to create a non-judgemental container where so much wisdom is uncovered.”
- Ana -
"Working with Yarrow has been transformative for my relationships. I’ve learned how essential emotional safety is — that feeling of being able to be open and vulnerable without fear.
Yarrow helped me build trust and communication skills, allowing me to connect on a deeper level.
Now, I approach my relationships with a greater sense of empathy and confidence, knowing that true connection happens when both people feel safe to be their authentic selves."
- Kelly Herringer -
"I didn’t realize how truly magical love feels until last year when I fell in love for the first time. Almost as quickly as I fell in love, my heart was shattered because he got scared and left. It was the deepest love and the deepest pain I have ever felt in my life. This lead me down a path of chaos and avoidance of myself, all to eventually lead me to healing my deepest wounds and discovering who I am at my core.
Yarrow has been with me every step of the way with this earth shattering love…she has guided me back to myself, pointed out the ways I avoided myself, and illuminated the lessons that brought me to my knees…to heal the deepest wounds I have ever faced.
She has a genuine gift of knowing when a connection is real vs attachment and what lessons you are meant to learn in your relationships. Each time I surrender to the lesson, it brings me deeper into relationship with myself. The deeper I connect to me, the more capacity I have to show up as the most authentic and connected version of myself.
We tend to loose ourselves in relationships because we’re terrified to be alone…to be in relationship with ourselves. So we attach onto other human beings as an avoidance of self and the fear of being alone. As a result, so many people are in misaligned relationships as a result. When you deepen into yourself, the fear begins to subside and you open yourself to the magic and true love of relationships.
This is the work Yarrow does with her clients: susses out the attachment, guides you through the lesson back to yourself, and helps you create true, connected, loving, aligned relationships."
How do you want your relationships to FEEL?
Imagine…
Understanding what it means to connect vs. attach and to feel safe to CONNECT and allow others to BE without needing to control/fix/save them
Identify when your trauma has become a third party in the relationship (for romantic relationships, especially in the bedroom)
RELEASING CONTROL, my goodness, what a relief that would be, right?
Feeling clear, calm, and connected to YOU while allowing the people in your life to have their OWN emotions and journey (no more asking, “are you okay?” every time they are silent)
Not feeling the need to fix, change, or be hypervigilant about the emotions of the people in your life (if they huff or the door shuts a little loudly you need not take it personally)
Trusting that all is okay if you haven’t received a response to your text for a few hours
Feeling able to be with the emotions of other’s without feeling overwhelmed and like you need to flee or fix
Attune to your inner child, so you feel safe to BE the powerful, embodied, and graceful woman you are
Understanding that relationships are here to show us what we cannot see within ourselves. Some of them are purely meant to help you heal, excavate, and transform.
Being able to recognize your triggers, to process them, and to express your feelings to the people in your life without projecting, blaming, shutting down, or reacting (no more regretting what comes out of your mouth)
Understanding your needs, desires, and emotions and being able to express them without being sneaky or “crafty” because you feel that is the only way they will be met.
Being in true devotion to yourself, your life, your relationships, and your love
Expressing your heart from a vulnerable place WITHOUT expectations and “needy” energy
Mastering the energetic sorcery BEHIND your communication and feeling able to create deeper connection through your energetic vibration.
Feeling able to see beyond your perspective and NOT take other people’s actions personally.
Softening your ego and connecting to your heart (TRULY), not as a concept, while HONORING yourself
Releasing the power struggle and connecting to your POWER
Being clear on what is a need vs. what is a trauma response.
Feeling able to be vulnerable and not act out afterwards.
I cannot tell you how infuriating it is for me when I come across a relationships course that spoon feeds us fantasy (hint: you may think you are looking for a fairy tale, but we all want more dimension to our lives than that) or one that has us acting passive aggressive and placating to each other’s attachment styles….
And NONE of these relationship courses focus on relationships as a whole. Rather they perpetuate the myth that your romantic relationships will save you and make you complete.
Yes, I believe most all of us want love, our person, and to create a wild and romantic love story, AND all of life is filled with relationships of all kinds…
Understanding how to navigate them through understanding yourself, your triggers, and YOUR energetic vibration through which you communicate will create deeper, more intimate, and more connected relationships of all kinds.
No one relationship will save you and SO few people are sovereign, connected, and powerful within their relationships that very few people know how to embody love in its true form.
This is because so few people are connected, sovereign, and powerful within themselves.
I do relationships differently.
I aim to help you create the kind of relationships that FEEL how you want them to feel and to not be afraid to get messy and raw along the way.
To get clear, honest, and certain about your relationships, all of them.
It may be time to move on from some of them or to accept where people are and not try to force OR
It may be time to say “I love you” or to receive “I love you.”
One of my superpowers is helping you understand what each relationship is meant to teach you or to be and how to navigate them all with grace as you learn, grow, and expand.
We have SO many F-ed up beliefs and so much F-ed up conditioning around relationships, and we are so quick to project, blame, and go to unhelpful places because we are terrified of rejection, loss, and abandonment…
And then we are fed relationship tips and courses that completely miss the point of what it is we are even wanting to create within our relationships we remain activated little children unable to move through our relationships with emotional intelligence and grace.
The truth, most people have no idea HOW to be in relationships —romantic, friendship, parent, co-worker, boss, employee, or fellow human living in this wild world…
One of the main reasons:
We have not been taught to honor, love, and revere ourselves and we have not been taught how to express our needs, emotions, and desires.
In fact, most of our “needs” are actually trauma responses…
In Relationships Re-imagined, you will process your trauma and show your nervous system you are safe to be YOU and honor your actual desires and to trust the lessons and experiences that each relationship is meant to bring.
We will get clear on your actual needs vs. your trauma, help you feel safe to communicate from your heart, and fall in love with your relationship journey rather than attaching to people who are meant to be a lesson rather than your people.
Conversely, you will learn to feel safe to lean in and receive in the relationships who are your people.
We get so scared and attach on so tightly.
In Relationships Re-imagined you will create internal safety, so you feel safe to be HONEST about your feelings, triggers, needs, desires, and the lessons you are learning in your relationships, so you feel safe to accept it all with grace and to lead through clean energy, heart, and emotional intelligence…
You will learn one of the most valuable skills in life... the subtle and necessary art of detachment.
This creates freedom within relationships and allows for you to fully embody faith and trust on all levels.
A woman who moves with true detachment creates the deepest connection and intimacy in every relationship in her life…
Relationships Re-Imagined
Pre-Work:
Addictive Behaviors and how they specifically impact relationships
(ex: scrolling as an avoidance of intimacy)
Societal Conditioning and Beliefs around relationships
Internal Safety
Attachment vs. Authenticity
Trauma and the nervous system specific ot relationships
MODULE 1: Triggers, Attachment Wounds, and your Inner Child
Power Struggles
Triggers
Activation
Perceptions and taking things personally
Projecting and Blaming
MODULE 2: Fear of being SEEN, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Shame
Shame and the ways it blocks intimacy
The sneaky ways we avoid intimacy
Our deepest need is to be seen, it is also our greatest fear
We will guide you to create safety around this
MODULE 3: Attachment vs. Connection
Raging attachment wounds
The difference between attachment and connection
Fear of loss, abandonment, and letting go
What it really means to be detached
Lessons and transformation
Spiritual Journey
MODULE 4: Communication and Energy
YOUR energetic language
Control
Projecting and blaming
Energy and energetic vibration
MODULE 5: Ego, Standards, and Consciousness
Wounded vs. Healthy Ego
Devotion
Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine
Outdated rules and beliefs
Standards based on ego
Faith and Trust
The Portal is a system to rewire your nervous system out of contraction, fear, and scarcity and into connection, abundance, and expansion...
Here's how it works:
The one thing MOST people miss when it comes to nervous system rewiring is this...
When you rewire your nervous system out of scarcity, contraction, and fear you must attune to a nervous system that is calibrated to connection, abundance, and expansion.
Here's why: without having the other person to attune to you WILL resort back to the old behaviors of the people around you because we are attachment based creatures and we know safety through what our people are doing...
So, in order to shift you must attune your nervous system to other people who are expanding as well.
This SHOWS your nervous system that it is safe for you to shift your energetic vibration.
- Rachel Kelly -
"If I were to choose a zone of genius of Yarrows among her MANY zones of geniuses, it’d be RELATIONSHIPS. We have SO many relationship coaches out there guiding people from a projection of their own unconscious unhealed attachment wounding perpetuating all or nothing/ black or white thinking, relating from ego and protectors and a closed heart.
Yarrow is as real as it gets when it comes to the relationship department. She has helped me continuously look at my role in how I am showing up in my relationships, where I’m relating from little girl/ proving energy and how I can show up more in my power. She has helped me uncover the life changing LESSONS in every romantic connection I’ve had.
Any other healer would have told me my past relationships were “toxic” and pointed out red flags. Instead Yarrow used a very radical, honest and EFFECTIVE approach: seeing it all through the lens of our unique souls journey. Is this attachment or true connection?
She helps you feel safe enough to release your ego around what relationships “should” look like based on curated social media posts and gets you to the real truth of what you’re mean to LEARN in each one so you can not only alchemize the connection but be present, feel safe to enjoy it, and truly experience connection which is what life is all about. She can sniff out when you’re relating or staying in relationship from perceived safety in a heart beat. So if you want someone to help you get radically honest with yourself, Yarrow is the one.
As someone who’s worst fear was loss…. Yarrow got me to a place where I had built enough internal safety in my body and healed enough of my anxious attachment where I felt safe to allow the natural evolution of my relationships to occur which resulted in several losses this past year: shedding all my remaining codependent relationships, allowing myself to move on when the connection had run its course.
Before working with Yarrow, I would have NEVER felt safe enough to experience that level of loss. Now I feel RELIEVED and FREE and excited for all the space I’ve made for more aligned connections to enter. No longer having to grasp onto misaligned people draining my energy and holding me back feels like the biggest exhale. And I now feel safe to be with the pain and grief that is naturally apart of that process. Facing your biggest fears and landing in the safety of the other side is truly the best gift you can give yourself.
If you’re ready to alchemize your current relationships, feel safe to shed one’s no longer in alignment (or even get clear on that) and call in TRUE CONNECTION, hire Yarrow and jump in her world immediately. Thank me later 😉❤️
*because of that safety to experience loss, I am now the most self connected and securely attached I have ever been in my life. Best feeling ever!"
WE ALL NEED THAT DAILY DOSE OF MAGIC.
We are inundated with media, gossip, drama, chaos, news, sports, BS distraction after BS distraction...
I want YOU to feel safe to attune your frequency to the purity of YOU, to abundance, connection, joy, pleasure, love, truth, and freedom...
THIS is the place to create that safety, to FEEL how you want to feel in your life, and to stay connected to ways of being that other people call "crazy."
Sweet one, there is NOTHING crazy about believing in the magic, light, and pure abundance of the universe and YOU...
You simply must feel safe to.
Each month, I will guide you through a series of programs to help you rewire your nervous system out of scarcity, fear, and contraction and into connection, abundance and expansion around a certain theme.
We will have 1 LIVE 2 hour call per month. This call is sacred. I will give hot seat mentorship and processing.
You are free to join for 1 month or you can join for 12 months.
