Imagine having a nervous system dripping with GOLD and ready to play in romance every single day…
Wired for connection, joy, play, all things romance, and with the ability to dance freely with eros WHILE…
holding yourself in the highest regard, as the most precious thing in the world…
AND,
feeling safe to be SEEN as all of you because ROMANCE, true romance,
is all about knowing and embodying, with certainty, the infinite magic of YOU while feeling safe to
be vulnerable, seen, and adored…
You may be rolling your eyes right now,
thinking this is a fairy tale way of existing, and I promise you, it isn’t,
even as a single woman, you get to feel as though your day is lit up with romance every single day…
To be adored and revered and held in the highest regard…
Here is the thing,
Did you know it is extremely vulnerable to feel adored?
It may be the most vulnerable thing in the world…
And so,
you desire to be adored,
yet, you crumble under the vulnerability and you:
Grasp on rather than surrender
Try to control rather than trust
Need validation for how he feels for you because you are not sure of how you feel for you or, even, how you feel for him
Are terrified to express how you feel
Terrified to say no and honor yourself
You have not felt safe to revel in all things romance because you have been conditioned to seek a relationship for safety rather than connection (hello, attachment wounds and old ways of relating),
and it sucks the joy out of your intimate partnerships…
Your nervous system is drenched in old conditioning, beliefs, and ways of being that do not serve you, ESPECIALLY around romance and love.
- Rachel Kelly -
"If I were to choose a zone of genius of Yarrows among her MANY zones of geniuses, it’d be RELATIONSHIPS. We have SO many relationship coaches out there guiding people from a projection of their own unconscious unhealed attachment wounding perpetuating all or nothing/ black or white thinking, relating from ego and protectors and a closed heart.
Yarrow is as real as it gets when it comes to the relationship department. She has helped me continuously look at my role in how I am showing up in my relationships, where I’m relating from little girl/ proving energy and how I can show up more in my power. She has helped me uncover the life changing LESSONS in every romantic connection I’ve had.
Any other healer would have told me my past relationships were “toxic” and pointed out red flags. Instead Yarrow used a very radical, honest and EFFECTIVE approach: seeing it all through the lens of our unique souls journey. Is this attachment or true connection?
She helps you feel safe enough to release your ego around what relationships “should” look like based on curated social media posts and gets you to the real truth of what you’re mean to LEARN in each one so you can not only alchemize the connection but be present, feel safe to enjoy it, and truly experience connection which is what life is all about. She can sniff out when you’re relating or staying in relationship from perceived safety in a heart beat. So if you want someone to help you get radically honest with yourself, Yarrow is the one.
As someone who’s worst fear was loss…. Yarrow got me to a place where I had built enough internal safety in my body and healed enough of my anxious attachment where I felt safe to allow the natural evolution of my relationships to occur which resulted in several losses this past year: shedding all my remaining codependent relationships, allowing myself to move on when the connection had run its course.
Before working with Yarrow, I would have NEVER felt safe enough to experience that level of loss. Now I feel RELIEVED and FREE and excited for all the space I’ve made for more aligned connections to enter. No longer having to grasp onto misaligned people draining my energy and holding me back feels like the biggest exhale. And I now feel safe to be with the pain and grief that is naturally apart of that process. Facing your biggest fears and landing in the safety of the other side is truly the best gift you can give yourself.
If you’re ready to alchemize your current relationships, feel safe to shed one’s no longer in alignment (or even get clear on that) and call in TRUE CONNECTION, hire Yarrow and jump in her world immediately. Thank me later 😉❤️
*because of that safety to experience loss, I am now the most self connected and securely attached I have ever been in my life. Best feeling ever!"
Take a moment to reflect on the models of love and romance around you…
Most of us have not received beautiful modeling of what romance means
This creates an energetic vibration of fear, control, graspiness, and attachment…
and the universe wants you to shift it into one of expansion, play, joy, flirtation, and love, yet you struggle to
accept the lessons,
allow them to help you alchemize your wounds into GOLD,
and to shift HOW you show up in love and romance…
TRUTH,
nothing will bring forward ALL of your wounds like romantic love
and when you know how to use this to heal, you connect to the purest and most divine source of LOVE and feel able to dance with eros in every day life...
After this month you will:
Become a high priestess Goddess of romance in a way that feels authentic to YOU
Rewire your nervous system to feel safe to be romantic in love
Trust the process in your journey with love
Alchemize your wounds into GOLD
Get crystal clear clarity around what you desire in love rather than what you think you “should” have
Feel safe to BE SEEN and embody the sweetest and purest vulnerability
BE the embodiment of romance, joy, play, and flirtation
KNOW your infinite magic and feels safe to be seen and adored for it.
I am here to guide you there...
I have always LOVED LOVE…
In 9th grade I wrote my English research paper about romantic love…
I hold the codes of what it means to BE in love and to be in love with yourself too…
I am here to help you to embody those codes too...
To know, with certainty, your innate magic and that you are adored for the beauty and Venusian divine feminine ways you move through the world
It may not feel natural at first because you have not been taught to move through the world in this way
Romantic love has been my greatest teacher, which has led me to embody divine cosmic love in ALL the ways.
And there is nothing more romantic than being embodied in divine cosmic love.
I am a true high priestess of romance, play, flirtation, joy, and KNOWING the magic of who you are while leaning into the relationships that are meant to help you alchemize your wounds into GOLD…
Let's go a bit deeper...
You desire to BE magnetic in love and yet...
You realize you doubt yourself and your infinite beauty and magic...
Manipulation and control step in because you do not feel safe to lean back and believe that you will receive.
You nag rather than communicate
Mothering your partner is not sexy and it is not nurturing. It is controlling.
Let him do it himself.
Yes, you may have to watch him struggle.
That is GOOD for both of you...
Your expectations create division because you do not feel safe to communicate your desires and honor your needs
No, he will not read your mind.
You will have to communicate.
Note: I said communicate, not nag or emotionally dump.
An embodied divine feminine woman lets her man know how she feels and then she steps away and trusts that if he is meant for her, he will come for her.
This is being a gentle leader.
You cannot expect someone to read your mind, nor can you expect them to meet you when you haven't directly and kindly, without expectation, communicated what you need.
You abandon yourself through giving and giving and giving and accepting WAY less than you desire
You know you are seeking saving even though you know that is not who you want to be.
Your sneaky unprocessed trauma and inner child are simply terrified of loss and you have not been guided to create internal safety and hold your personal power in the unknown, to trust that you will receive...
To trust that love can be playful, flirtatious, and fun...
Sweet one, you are a grown and powerful woman, not a little girl to be saved.
You put him on a pedestal, and daydream about him like he is a knight on a white horse, yet you do not even know if you like him...
You are pure magic embodied, put YOU on that pedestal, and not in an entitled bratty sort of way rather one of a relaxed goddess who just KNOWS and is adored for the magic that she is.
Which means, be willing to endure the pain of letting go when you need to
You know what you desire
and yet you go into "poor me" energy or "why is this happening energy?"
Or you are rageful and resentful towards the world
Neither energy will make you a match for LOVE, for beauty, for the ease of receiving and imbuing your life with romance, play, joy, and eros.
These are the questions an embodied divine feminine woman asks...
What GOLD can I extract from this?
What am I learning here?
Instead you go lose your personal power and slide into "poor me" mode,
and you self-abandon through...
giving too much
accepting less than you desire
giving with expectation (when you give from clean energy and an open heart you always receive)
saying yes when you want to say no
And then you complain or overcompensate for the other...
Let's talk about this...
No one will value you unless you value YOU...
We have been taught to sacrifice and abandon ourselves, which then causes us to seek saving in others, particular in our romantic relationships.
And then we do one of two things:
We complain about the other or we overcompensate for the other.
Sweet one, it quite literally all comes back to YOU.
Your need for safety and approval through the other causes you to self-sacrifice, which leads to your being resentful, bitter, and frustrated.
And then you justify it because you are just so sensitive, have a bleeding heart, love so much, etc...
Yes, you may be sensitive and open hearted, however, these are sneaky ways you attach onto victimhood rather than getting honest about your messy, little girl energy, and the ways that you want to be saved OR do not believe that you will be adored and romanced…
It is time that you create internal safety, so you stop seeking external saving...
When you feel safe to honor YOU, to BE THAT woman...
The one who knows exactly what she wants
Knows exactly what she desires
Is able to express it through clean, powerful energy without resentment and control
You shift your energetic vibration and RECEIVE it ALL.
More importantly, you learn to dance with eros in your daily life, to embody what it means to live through the lens of embodied romantic divinity…
I am here to guide you to transform into BEING embodied in the codes of all things romance
To dance freely in the world with a pure and open heart while adoring and revering yourself in the greatest divinity of YOU
And to hold your romantic partners in that divinity as well…
We have lost this divinity, and I am here to help you reclaim it, to embody the pure power of what it means to dance in the romantic flames…
The Portal February — ALL THINGS ROMANCE is POTENT, playful, joyful, flirtations magnetic, juicy…
I have always LOVED LOVE, and it has been my greatest teacher, which has led me to
As we do everything in the Yarrow Kae world, we will be shifting from self-abandoning to romantic high priestess at a nervous system level.
When your nervous system is dripping GOLD so are you...
And dripping in GOLD is the most romantic way to BE…
Included in The Portal February:
2-hour LIVE hot seat mentorship call with Yarrow, so you have individual support
One of the most POWERFUL Yarrow Kae Academy Programs, Safe to BE SEEN
2 additional LIVE MODULES added to Safe to BE SEEN, specifically around love, romance, and eros
Highly acclaimed Elixir of LOVE masterclass
M-F Telegram Broadcast channel from Yarrow, so you stay tapped into creating a new way of being and SHOWING your nervous system it is safe for you to be dripping in GOLD
Questions for Yarrow Telegram Channel, so you receive individual guidance
Daily meditation and chant imbued with the energetics of the theme for the month, so you create daily habits that allow you to integrate a new energetic vibration
Community of powerful, intelligent, and expansive humans who are dedicated to healing, expanding, spiritually transforming and mastering energetics, so you feel safe to EXPAND into this new way of being
