The Yarrow Kae Way

A 6 month training

A healing method that sets you FREE…

The Yarrow Kae Way is designed to guide you to feel safe to heal AND expand.

So often we get stuck in the healing phase and as clinicians, coaches, therapists, healers, and mentors, we struggle to meet people where they are AND activate them into expansion.

We validate for too long, get scared of triggering people, and placate to their woundedness.

THIS is our woundedness being projected onto the clients.

And it leads to people staying STUCK.

Having experienced this for MANY more years than I want to admit, I have created a healing method that collapses time around healing, so you feel safe to heal and expand.

At its core The Yarrow Kae Way is full spiritual transformation, and I recognize the complication around making that statement because our spiritual journey never ends, and we CANNOT accelerate another person’s timeline.

THIS is precisely what makes The Yarrow Kae Way a path to self-actualization and spiritual transformation.

This method is designed to help people feel safe to get radically honest, come into full acceptance, and view each moment of their life through the lens of “how is this happening for me?”

This is not for the faint of heart.

The Yarrow Kae Way is designed to facilitate change in such a deep way that you no longer recognize your previous self in all the best ways.

You may be wondering; how do you achieve this?

Through rewiring your nervous system back to safety, so you feel safe to release your addictive behaviors, maladaptive coping mechanisms, and defenses, allowing you to process the deep pain and trauma (especially the attachment and relational trauma) that hides underneath.

As you come back to safety, you attune to your inner child, so you feel safe to relate to the world from your highest and most powerful self.

From this space you have the personal power to view all of life as an opportunity to expand, each lesson (no matter how painful) becomes a portal to your next iteration, you no longer grasp onto others, seek external validation, or allow your inner child to run your life.

You no longer feel the need to allow perfectionism, overworking, or control to dictate how you relate to the world.

You feel safe to land, fully in your body, and to feel safe to just BE.

You feel safe to connect deeply to yourself, others, and the world, and to trust in the unknown because you KNOW in your entire BEING you are creating magic from this space.

This is a full energetic vibrational transformation.

In The Yarrow Kae Way we learn to suss out the sneaky, subtle energy that creates attachment to staying stuck as a way of feeling safe. Humans are so sneaky and our nervous system simply wants to keep us safe.

We have to move within our window of tolerance while still stretching our nervous system

In doing so, we are able to release the subtle energy and to relate differently, so you are able to shift and expand.

Most importantly, so you feel safe to just BE without gripping, avoiding, rushing, running, or shutting down on life.

As a healer, coach, therapist, or mentor The Yarrow Kae Way gives you the blueprint to guide people through the hardest and most profound lessons of their life.

In society we are often conditioned to bypass the lessons in lieu of the “perfect” and “healthiest” life.

This is NOT what we do…

We help people to:

Unravel the potent lessons within their messiest moments

Extract the narratives from their trauma that have been running their lives and keeping them in a perpetual loop unable to feel free

Heal their attachment wounding and rewire their nervous system to feel safe to commit to themselves

Feel safe to allow themselves to be SEEN as all of them and to BE with the pain and shame that they have been repressing, denying, hiding, and avoiding.

Connect to their highest and most powerful self in every moment

Connect to their VISION

Create a life that FEELS how they want it to feel

This method is my life’s work, and it is designed to set people free from suffering.

I spent YEARS suffering and now I know that we do not have to.

The Yarrow Kae way peels back the layers to get to the core of who we ARE, what we are meant to do, and to feel safe to BE it and create it. To land deeply into your body and FEEL with all of your cells that you are safe to just BE, receive, be seen, and EXPAND.

Curriculum

MODULE 1: Therapy Basics

·     Unconditional Positive regard

·     Transference and Countertransference

·     Projection

·     Self-awareness

·     Unconscious projection

·     Co-regulation leads to self regulation

·     Feelings Vs. Perceptions

• AND THIS IS KEY: BEING with people's pain without trying to fix it, move it, change it, or bypass it. This will ask you to feel safe to BE with your own pain without moving away from it.
• This kind of holding is KEY for transformation.

MODULE 2: Addictive Behaviors and Maladaptive Coping Mechanisms

·     How to identify them in yourself and others

·     How to release them and help your clients release them

·     What purpose they serve

·     How they mask pain

·     Guiding your clients HOME to themselves

MODULE 3: The Nervous System and Safety

·     It ALL comes back to safety

·     Your nervous system creates your life

·     Polyvagal theory

·     Guiding your clients to safety

·     Rewiring your nervous system,

·     Attachment wounds and the Nervous System

·     The inner child and our nervous system

·     Subtle energy and the sneaky ways of your NS

MODULE 4: The Pain, Wounds, and Trauma

·     Identifying trauma (childhood, ancestral, karmic, spiritual)

·     Trauma responses

·     Moving it through the body

·     Somatic healing and trauma

·     The ways we hold onto pain to avoid our selves

·     Pain and shame, they ways people avoid these at ALL costs

·     When we make it all “too precious” and how this protects us from being seen

·     Feeling safe to BE SEEN

MODULE 5: The Ways of Attachment

·     Attachment Styles

·     Attachment Wounds

·     How these show up and interrelate to our nervous system

·     Addiction as an attachment disorder by Dr. Phillip J. Flores

·     Dr. Gabor Mate Authenticity Vs. Attachment

·     The ways your attachment relationships keep you safe and stuck

·     How to help your clients feel safe to make the moves that might shift their attachment relationships

·     Healthy detachment and your highest self

·     BEING a leader in your life

MODULE 6: The Triggers

·     What are they

·     How do you identify them

·     The ammunition behind the trigger

·     Moving out of a victim way of being

·     Perceptions VS. Feelings

·     Needing validation Vs. Feeling validated

·     Neutralizing the triggers

·     Uncovering the activation point within them

·     Turning your triggers into POWER

MODULE 7: The intimacy, the vulnerability, and the shame

·     Shame and its effects on us

·     How we avoid shame at all costs

·     Sneaky and subtle shame

·     The ways that we hide from shame

·     Lying to ourselves

·     Vulnerability is the access point to connection.

·     Guiding your clients to feel safe being vulnerable

·     Getting honest about the ways we project and deny our feelings when we feel vulnerable

MODULE 8: The Inner Child

·     Attunement

·     Unmet needs

·     Seeking saving

·     Protectors that act as a defense for your inner child

·     Play and Joy

·     Placating VS. Attuning to her

·     Meeting her needs

·     Expressing needs, wants, and desires

MODULE 9: The Shadow and The Gold

·     Exploring The Shadow, what is it?

·     Making the unconscious conscious

·     Excavating the GOLD

·     AGAIN, getting very honest here

MODULE 10: The Clarity and The VISION

·     Intuition

·     Feeling the truth underneath the defenses, protectors, and ego

·     HOLDING the vision

·     The Unknown, non-attachment (true non-attachment)

·     Faith and Trust

MODULE 11: The Receptivity

·     Energetics. Subtle energy creates your life.

• Divine Feminine and Masculine Energetics
• Spiritual transformation, learning lessons, acceptance, and letting go

·     Safe to Receive

·     Safe to Trust

·     How to hold people through these concepts

MODULE 12: HOW TO CREATE YOUR HEALING BUSINESS

• The Art of Sacred Selling
• BEING YOU
• Feeling safe to BE SEEN
• Human Design and your marketing
• Your relationship with money
• Receiving money and clients
• Sales and strategy